Stephanie Diani/NBCUniversal Kristin Cavallari is opening up about the constant media attention her dating life receives "The headlines love to just put me in this box that has to do with men and sex," she tells PEOPLE The reality star returns to TV on June 4 with the premiere ofHonestly Cavallari: The Headline Touron E! Kristin Cavallariisn't immune to the news cycle. The reality TV star, 38, first shot to fame when she was just 17 on MTV'sLaguna Beach, and she's continued to receive media attention for the last two decades. Despite her experience in the spotlight, Cavallari — who is making her return to reality TV whenHonestly Cavallari: The Headline Tourpremieres on June 4 — tells PEOPLE that she actually "hates" reading stories about herself. "The headlines love to just put me in this box that has to do with men and sex. And I get it. I know it's a game. It's all about clickbait, but when it's about you? I'm a real person. It affects me. It does," she says in this week's issue. Ralph Bavaro/E! ENTERTAINMENT Cavallari is also the first to admit that she's been open about her dating life in the past, "probably too much so." Last year, Cavallari made headlines for her13-year age gap relationship with Montana Boyz TikToker Mark Estes, and onBunnie Xo'sDumb Blondepodcast in December, Cavallari saidMorgan Wallenwas "good in bed." Still, Cavallari wishes more people understood that she has "s--- going on other than who I'm dating." "How about a headline about me running a really successful business or what a good mom I am? These are real things," she says. "But no, they would never write good headlines because they don't get as many clicks, I guess." Cavallari shares her three children — sons Camden, 12, Jaxon, 11, and daughter Saylor, 9 — with herex-husband, former NFL quarterback Jay Cutler. She's also the founder of lifestyle and jewelry brandUncommon James, which she launched in 2017, and hosts the popular podcastLet's Be Honest. Courtesy Kristin Cavallari "Those first couple of years, it was [my] passion and fire that made us successful in the beginning. And I always say to people, I didn't go to college, but I have drive. I'm hardworking. Those things can't be taught," she says. "And so, if you have those things, you're unstoppable. That's what they can't teach you in school, and I have those things." Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE's free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. When she's not busy working, Cavallari says she really is just focused on her kids. "I'm going to basketball practice and games like every other parent. I'm at school. I was on a field trip last Friday. I am doing all the normal mom things," she says. "And I think it's probably good for people to see because I think people's idea of me is very different than who I actually am." Honestly Cavallari: The Headline Tourwill premiere Wednesday, June 4 at 10 p.m. ET with two back-to-back half-hour episodes on E!. Read the original article onPeople